I see a lot of similarities to this in my daughter (who is now 21). She is notorious for doing things "on her own timeline." She did well in HS but we were constantly pushing her "get things done." She did two years of college but without us there to monitor and push her, things fell apart. She now lives with me again and is working full time from home. She has a therapist and is really finding her place in the world. I think she'll work it out, in her own way.
I see a lot of similarities to this in my daughter (who is now 21). She is notorious for doing things "on her own timeline." She did well in HS but we were constantly pushing her "get things done." She did two years of college but without us there to monitor and push her, things fell apart. She now lives with me again and is working full time from home. She has a therapist and is really finding her place in the world. I think she'll work it out, in her own way.